Programs & events

Programs for every season of marriage.

Pick where you are, or come to whatever fits. Everything here is open to any couple in the Memphis area.

Quarterly Saturdays

Grace Marriage

Next: Sat, Aug 29

Assess + Engage + Grow

Grace Marriage is a nationally recognized, licensed curriculum built around quarterly Saturday gatherings — couples spend the morning dating, journaling, and learning together in a small-group environment. The curriculum runs four quarterly sessions a year across a seven-volume journal-style book series, so couples move through roughly one volume per year for a seven-year journey of steady, intentional growth. Free catered breakfast and free childcare are included. Come as you are; jump in any quarter.

Format
Quarterly Saturday gatherings
Cost
$189 per couple — the Marriage Ministry pays $89, so your cost is $100
Who it's for
All couples
  • Assess + Engage + Grow framework
  • 4 quarterly Saturday sessions / year
  • Dating, journaling & small-group learning
  • Marriage assessment
  • 24 group lessons & worksheets
  • Video sessions
  • Weekly check-ins
  • Exclusive journal website access
  • Digital resource toolbox
  • Free catered breakfast
  • Free childcare
  • Next session: Saturday, August 29

Seven-volume curriculum

  1. I. The Foundation
  2. II. Marriage Enhancer
  3. III. Life Intentional
  4. IV. Priority Mindset
  5. V. Priority Mindset
  6. VI. Investment Mentality
  7. VII. Character & Connection

The Grace Marriage program gives our community the opportunity to regularly invest in marriage throughout every season of life. The curriculum has built-in materials and reminders to check in with your spouse and remember to keep loving each other. And who doesn't want the opportunity for a quarterly home-cooked breakfast — without the chore of cleaning the kitchen?

Angie Murphy, Grace Marriage

Our vision

Our vision is to make intentional marriage investment the new normal. We want to be a community where couples continually grow, where love is lived out daily, and where faith is reflected in the way we honor our spouses.

“Let marriage be held in honor by all.” — Hebrews 13:4

Led by

Jonathan & Angie Murphy · Shawn & Lisa Frenzel

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First years of marriage

SMLR for Seriously Dating, Engaged, and Newly Married couples

Start Married Life Right (SMLR) is designed for seriously dating, engaged, and newly married couples to walk through the foundational habits, conversations, and rhythms that set a marriage up to thrive for the long haul. In this interactive course, you and your partner will receive engaging Biblical instruction and participate in meaningful discussions with other couples as you build a strong foundation for a God-honoring marriage. Key topics include communication, conflict, relationships with in-laws, money, intimacy, and much more. Reserve your spot now!

Format
Multi-week afternoon program
Cost
$30 per couple
Who it's for
Seriously dating, engaged, or married up to 5 years — open to the community
  • Multi-week interactive program
  • Practical & discussion-based
  • Small-group format
  • Qualifies for the Premarital Preparation discount on your marriage license
  • Open to the community

Led by

Matt & Laura Smeltzer

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Premarital & married couples

SYMBIS — Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts

SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) is a research-based analysis for those looking into marriage as well as married couples wanting to strengthen their marriage. After completing the assessment, the couple meets for five facilitated sessions to walk through the answers together — unpacking personality, expectations, communication, finances, intimacy, and the season ahead. The process can also help satisfy pre-marriage preparation requirements. Any of our certified SYMBIS facilitator couples can lead the sessions.

Format
Assessment + 5 follow-up sessions
Cost
No cost for the analysis or the sessions
Who it's for
All couples — premarital or married
A facilitator and participant meeting one-on-one in a living-room-style setting
  • Personal SYMBIS assessment
  • 5 facilitated discussion sessions
  • No cost to the couple
  • 1-on-1 facilitator couple time
  • Great for pre-marriage prep
  • Certified SYMBIS facilitators

Led by

Bill & Cathy Ivey · Additional certified SYMBIS facilitator couples

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Weekend getaways

WinShape Retreats

WinShape is an award-winning, biblically grounded ministry that brings couples to Rome, Georgia for a long weekend to learn about specific subjects tied to marriage and life. Each couple selects the topic that fits their season and pays the registration; the Marriage Ministry then reimburses roughly half the tuition — usually around $400. Highland has partnered with WinShape for more than 16 years, and in that time we've seen couples come back with new resources, shared memories, and a renewed friendship. If you'd like help planning a WinShape trip, just reach out — we'd love to help make it happen.

Format
Long weekend in Rome, Georgia
Cost
Couple pays registration; Marriage Ministry covers ~½ tuition (usually about $400)
Who it's for
All couples
WinShape retreat campus reflected in a still lake under a wide sky
  • Choose your own topic
  • ½ tuition covered by the Marriage Ministry
  • Personal trip-planning help available
  • 16+ years partnering with WinShape
  • Long-weekend format in Rome, GA
  • Multiple dates each year

Led by

Jesse & Rachel Cox

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Confidential, professional care

Counseling

Highland provides counseling for its members and their children. That can mean marriage issues, personal issues, children's issues (preteen, teen, college, and post-college), and addictions. You start with six sessions from a counselor of your choice, and additional sessions can be arranged. Everything is confidential and handled quietly, without judgment. If you're not a Highland member, reach out anyway — we're glad to point you toward trusted counselors in the Memphis area.

Format
6 sessions to start, with a counselor of your choice
Cost
You pay the co-pay only; additional sessions can be arranged
Who it's for
Highland members and their children
  • Counselor of your choice
  • 6 sessions to start; more can be arranged
  • Marriage, personal, children's & addiction support
  • Confidential conversations
  • Referrals available for non-members

Led by

Jeff Frizzell · Bill Ivey

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Guest speakers & events

Special Marriage Presentations

Throughout the year we host guest speakers and special presentations on marriage topics — everything from communication and intimacy to parenting-through-marriage and navigating hard seasons. These stand-alone events are a great way to try the ministry, hear a fresh voice, or bring a friend who's curious.

A speaker addressing a full auditorium during a marriage presentation
  • Guest speakers throughout the year
  • Stand-alone, easy to attend
  • Fresh topics each event
  • Bring a friend — all couples welcome

Led by

Bill & Cathy Ivey

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Not sure where to start?

Send us a note and we'll help you figure out which program fits your season best. No pressure, no sales pitch.

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