Programs & events

Programs for every season of marriage.

Pick where you are, or come to whatever fits. Everything here is open to any couple in the Memphis area.

Quarterly Saturdays

Grace Marriage

Next: Sat, Aug 29

Assess + Engage + Grow

Grace Marriage is a licensed curriculum built around four quarterly sessions per year and a seven-volume journal-style book series — couples move through roughly one volume per year, making it a seven-year journey of steady, intentional growth. Come as you are; jump in any quarter.

  • Assess + Engage + Grow framework
  • 4 quarterly Saturday sessions / year
  • Marriage assessment
  • 24 group lessons & worksheets
  • Video sessions
  • Weekly check-ins
  • Exclusive journal website access
  • Digital resource toolbox
  • Free breakfast
  • Free childcare
  • Next session: Saturday, August 29

Seven-volume curriculum

  1. I. The Foundation
  2. II. Marriage Enhancer
  3. III. Life Intentional
  4. IV. Priority Mindset
  5. V. Priority Mindset
  6. VI. Investment Mentality
  7. VII. Character & Connection

The Grace Marriage program gives our community the opportunity to regularly invest in marriage throughout every season of life. The curriculum has built-in materials and reminders to check in with your spouse and remember to keep loving each other. And who doesn't want the opportunity for a quarterly home-cooked breakfast — without the chore of cleaning the kitchen?

Angie Murphy, Grace Marriage

Our vision

Our vision is to make intentional marriage investment the new normal. We want to be a community where couples continually grow, where love is lived out daily, and where faith is reflected in the way we honor our spouses.

“Let marriage be held in honor by all.” — Hebrews 13:4

Led by

Jonathan & Angie Murphy · Shawn & Lisa Frenzel

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First years of marriage

SMLR for Newlyweds

Start Married Life Right (SMLR) walks newlywed couples through the foundational habits, conversations, and rhythms that set a marriage up to thrive for the long haul.

  • Small-group format
  • Married 0–5 years
  • Practical & discussion-based

Led by

Matt & Laura Smeltzer

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Engaged couples

Premarital Counseling

Our premarital counseling walks engaged couples through the research-based SYMBIS (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) assessment paired with facilitated one-on-one conversations. Together we unpack personality, expectations, communication, finances, and the season ahead — and the process can help satisfy pre-marriage preparation requirements. Any of our certified SYMBIS facilitator couples can lead a session.

A facilitator and participant meeting one-on-one in a living-room-style setting
  • Personal SYMBIS assessment
  • 1-on-1 facilitator couple time
  • Great for pre-marriage prep
  • Certified SYMBIS facilitators

Led by

Bill & Cathy Ivey · Additional certified SYMBIS facilitator couples

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Weekend getaways

WinShape Retreats

WinShape is a ministry that creates space for couples to get away on purpose and build lifelong tools for a lasting marriage. Highland has partnered with WinShape for more than 16 years, and in that time we've seen couples come back with new resources, shared memories, and a renewed friendship. The retreats are designed for every season and situation of life, from couples who simply need a fun reset to couples navigating something harder. Because investing in your marriage, making time to laugh together, and stepping away with intention are some of the best things you can do. If you'd like help planning a WinShape trip, just reach out — we'd love to help make it happen.

WinShape retreat campus reflected in a still lake under a wide sky
  • Personal trip-planning help available
  • 16+ years partnering with WinShape
  • Scholarships available
  • Weekend format
  • Multiple dates each year

Led by

Jesse & Rachel Cox

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Ongoing support & referrals

Marriage Counseling

For couples who need more than a class or retreat can offer, we provide confidential guidance and connect you with trained, professional marriage counselors we know and trust. Whether you're in a hard season, working through a specific issue, or simply want a third voice in the room, we'll help you find the right next step — quietly and without judgment.

  • Confidential conversations
  • Referrals to trusted professionals
  • Support for any season
  • Local Memphis-area network

Led by

Jeff Frizzell · Bill Ivey

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Guest speakers & events

Special Marriage Presentations

Throughout the year we host guest speakers and special presentations on marriage topics — everything from communication and intimacy to parenting-through-marriage and navigating hard seasons. These stand-alone events are a great way to try the ministry, hear a fresh voice, or bring a friend who's curious.

A speaker addressing a full auditorium during a marriage presentation
  • Guest speakers throughout the year
  • Stand-alone, easy to attend
  • Fresh topics each event
  • Bring a friend — all couples welcome

Led by

Bill & Cathy Ivey

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Not sure where to start?

Send us a note and we'll help you figure out which program fits your season best. No pressure, no sales pitch.

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